What Is a Death-Doula?
A Death-Doula, otherwise known as an "End of Life Caregiver," is responsible for all things that are outside the scope of aids, medical assistants, or hospice nurses. I am a facilitator & moderator for both the individual in my care and the family, as well as the medical assistance staff. I communicate needs that might otherwise be too taboo or unspoken. I provide deep companionship and care for those who spend extended periods of time alone. And I make people feel seen - along with helping pick up groceries, purchasing life assistance products on behalf of the family, and any emotional or scheduling needs necessary. I am the human-foundation you can rely on.​
Why a Death-Doula?
At the age of 21, I chose to live with my Grandmother during the summer because we had just lost our Grandpa, her Husband of 60+ years, and I didn't want her to be by herself. That's when I first noticed how much it meant to be there for someone who otherwise would have been alone.
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After that summer, I assisted her and her aids while visiting every month, for weeks at a time, until she passed.
When my previous boss asked me what brings me joy, this was my answer:
​To be present and give emotional care, friendship, and support to those toward the end of their life. I believe deeply in helping people feel & be seen. Foremost, I want to provide a safe space for anyone to be their most authentic self.
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A Doula's work is based on the Platinum Rule, "Treat others how they want to be treated."
​Please feel free to message me at: Jschlanger17@gmail.com if you have any questions.